Coming of Age Program

The Coming of Age (COA) program is a meaningful rite of passage designed to support youth as they transition into young adulthood. Rooted in the tradition of marking life’s milestones, the COA program provides a structured opportunity for 10th graders to explore their spirituality, deepen their understanding of Unitarian Universalism, and begin to define their personal beliefs and values. Through mentorship, reflective discussions, service projects, and exploration of UU history and principles, participants are guided in developing a personal credo statement that culminates in a special Coming of Age worship service with the larger congregation. This journey fosters self-discovery, spiritual grounding, and a stronger sense of belonging within our faith community. Upon completing the program, youth are invited to consider formal membership in the church, affirming their place in the wider UU tradition.

If you are interested in learning more about our Coming of Age program, please contact our Youth Program Coordinator (and Ministerial Intern) Nathaniel at intern@follen.org.

Coming of Age: A Program for Youth AND Their Mentors

Across religions and cultures people honor the transition from childhood to adulthood with study and ritual. For Unitarian Universalists, a coming of age ceremony is usually the culmination of a process that involves the young person delving into an intentional assessment of their own values, spirituality, and beliefs at this time in their lives, which they will ultimately be asked to share with their congregation. The process is an important one, for which they will have both program advisors and an individual, chosen adult mentor to companion with as they explore.

The Coming of Age (COA) Mentor is a trusted and respected adult member of our congregation who brings integrity, honesty, and ethical interaction to that process. Mentors participate in the bi-monthly meetings with their “mentee,” and use those gatherings as a springboard to offer guidance and insights.